This Christmas my wife and I would like to go somewhere alone, without families and dinner parties 
What are good and cheap getaways you can recommend for Christmas for 2 nights or so?
Should either be 4/5 hrs driving distance from the CA Bay Area or a cheap flight.
THANKS!
I would recommend a few, I’m not sure how much you want to spend:
Mendocino is a 2-3 hour drive north. It’s plenty romantic if that’s what you’re looking for, and there are a lot of Bed and Breakfasts. If you want a hotel, I suggest the Little River Inn, especially if they have room in the old building. There are also several other places near Mendocino that wouldn’t be quite as high end, and only a few miles down the highway.
There’s always Tahoe. People with cabins at Northstar often rent them out during the holidays. This can get quite expensive, but it’s worth looking around for a smaller one. They are usually close to the village for a hot chocolate, and you can go hiking or skiing if you want also. Near civilization (South Lake) if you forgot a present. 4 hour drive from SF.
Yosemite has a few really cool hotels, if you could find a deal. It snows, they have fireplaces and nice dinners and stuff. Probably 5 hours.
Carmel or the surrounding area has some fairly cheap hotels, and has a good Christmas-y atmosphere. There’s a lot to do in surrounding Monterey and Santa Cruz, including the aquarium, lots of restaurants and bars, the boardwalk, etc. But I would recommend Carmel if you’re going to do something romantic in this area. 2 hours at most.
Sacramento is cheap relative to these places, but I live here so it doesn’t seem all that special to me
Old town is interesting, including the train museum. Also, the downtown mall would be all decked out. Not much in the way of romantic tourism in Sac though. San Francisco sounds a lot better, minus $40 parking in the holiday season.